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Privacy Statement

JEHOER.NL is an advertising platform for adults. Because profiles and messages may contain information about sexual behaviour or sexual orientation, we treat your data with extra care. Here you can read what data we use, why, with whom we share it and what rights you have.

Version of 26 September 2026

This is a translation. In case of any difference, the Dutch version applies.

1. Who is responsible?

Data controller: [full legal name and legal form – to be completed], trading as JEHOER.NL (jehoer.nl).

Address: Keizersgracht 520 H, 1017 EK Amsterdam

Chamber of Commerce (KvK) number: [to be completed]

Privacy contact: support@jehoer.nl

An advertising company may itself be the data controller for data it collects from its own employees or customers. Its own privacy statement then applies to that processing.

2. From whom do we obtain data?

From visitors, account holders, advertisers, persons featured in an advertisement, reporters of misuse and people who contact us. Data comes from you, from a company that places an advertisement for you with your consent, from your use of the website and from our payment service provider. We do not buy data from third parties.

3. What data do we process and why?

Article 4 additionally applies to special categories of personal data, such as data concerning sexual behaviour or sexual orientation. Data that is mandatory is marked next to the input field; everything else is voluntary.

ActivityDataPurpose and legal basis
Visit and securityIP address, device and browser information, timestamps, technical log filesProviding and securing the website; legitimate interest.
AccountE-mail address, name or company name, password (encrypted), language and notification settingsProviding the account and requested functions; performance of the contract. Combating misuse: legitimate interest.
Identity verificationPhoto of your identity document (national identification number may be covered) and a selfie with that document; outcome and date of the checkEstablishing that an advertiser is an adult and is who they claim to be, in order to prevent misuse, coercion and human trafficking; legitimate interest. Manual comparison, no biometric processing.
Advertisement and profileProfile name, age, description, place of residence, categories, services, rates, phone/WhatsApp, photos and videoPublishing the advertisement; performance of the contract plus explicit consent (article 4).
Messages via the formName, e-mail address and/or telephone number of the sender, message, timestampForwarding messages to the advertiser; performance of the contract. Anti-spam and moderation: legitimate interest.
ReportsReason for and explanation of the report, assessmentSafety and statutory obligations; legitimate interest or statutory obligation.
PaymentsOrder, amount, payment status, transaction ID, invoice details. We do not receive card details; these remain with StripePayment and administration; performance of the contract and statutory tax retention obligation.
Customer serviceName or account, contact details, content of your query and correspondenceHandling your query; performance of the contract or legitimate interest.
Statistics for advertisersAnonymised counts of views and contact clicks per dayGiving advertisers insight; legitimate interest. No profile of visitors.

4. Special categories of personal data and publication

A profile, photo, category or message may reveal information about sexual behaviour or sexual orientation. Before publicly displaying such data, we ask for explicit and specific consent in advance from the person concerned: you give this by submitting your advertisement and confirming the accompanying declaration. You withdraw that consent by taking your advertisement offline or deleting it in your dashboard, or via support@jehoer.nl. Withdrawal has no retroactive effect.

A company that features someone in an advertisement must be able to demonstrate that person has been informed and has given consent for the specific publication. If this cannot be demonstrated, we may refuse or remove the placement.

We do not use profile, message or verification data for personalised advertising and do not sell data. We do not use advertising or analytics partners.

5. Identity verification

Before an advertisement goes online, we ask the advertiser to provide (1) a photo of a valid passport, identity card or driving licence, and (2) immediately afterwards a selfie holding that document next to their face.

  • Who carries out the check? A JEHOER.NL administrator, personally. We do not use an external verification provider.
  • How? The administrator visually compares the photos. No automated facial recognition or other biometric processing takes place.
  • National identification number: we do not need your national identification number; cover it before taking the photo.
  • Storage: the photos are kept in protected storage that only administrators can access, via temporary links.
  • Retention period: both photos are automatically deleted no later than 30 days after approval or rejection. After that, we only retain the outcome, the date and which administrator performed the check.

6. Who can see the data?

A published advertisement is visible to visitors and can be found via search engines. Telephone number and WhatsApp are only visible via the contact buttons. Messages submitted via the form are only visible to the advertiser. Administrators can only view messages and data for support, safety or investigation of a specific report.

We engage the following service providers; they only receive what is necessary for their task:

  • Lovable / Supabase: hosting of the website, database, file storage and login.
  • Cloudflare: delivery and security of the website.
  • Stripe: processing of payments (partly an independent data controller; see stripe.com/privacy).
  • E-mail delivery via our hosting provider for confirmation and notification e-mails.
  • AI translation service via our hosting provider: only the public texts of an advertisement are translated, without name, contact details or photos.

We share data with the police or other competent authorities only if we are legally obliged to do so or another valid basis exists, never on an informal request.

7. Transfers outside the EEA

Some service providers (such as Stripe, Cloudflare and the translation service) are established in, or have access from, the United States. In such cases we rely on the EU-US Data Privacy Framework or the European Commission's standard contractual clauses, with additional measures where necessary. You can request a copy of the safeguards via support@jehoer.nl.

8. How long do we keep data?

No longer than necessary, unless a statutory retention obligation or a specific dispute requires a longer period. After that, we delete or anonymise data. Backups are overwritten within a maximum of 30 days.

Type of dataRetention period
Account dataAs long as your account exists; deleted within 30 days after deletion of your account
Advertisements, photos and videoUntil you delete the advertisement or your account; then also removed from caches within 30 days
Messages via the formUntil the advertiser deletes them or the advertisement/account is deleted
Identity document and selfieNo later than 30 days after the review; only the outcome is retained for as long as the account exists
Payment and invoice data7 years after the end of the financial year (statutory tax retention obligation)
Reports and customer serviceUp to 2 years after handling, longer if an investigation or dispute is ongoing
Technical logsMaximum of 90 days
Local storage in your browserSee the cookie statement

9. Security

We use encrypted connections (https), encrypted passwords, protected storage for photos and identity documents, access control per user and role, and restricted access for administrators. Do you suspect a security issue? Report it via support@jehoer.nl.

10. Your rights

You have the right to access, correct, delete, restrict, object to and transfer your data, and you can withdraw any consent given at any time. You can adjust much of this data yourself in your dashboard. For other requests, e-mail support@jehoer.nl; we will respond within one month and may ask you to confirm your identity.

Do you disagree with how we handle your data? You can lodge a complaint with the Autoriteit Persoonsgegevens (the Dutch Data Protection Authority, autoriteitpersoonsgegevens.nl).

11. Minors

The website is intended solely for persons aged 18 and over. If it turns out that we hold data of a minor, we will delete that data and the relevant advertisement.

12. Changes

We update this statement whenever our services or suppliers change. In the event of material changes, we will inform account holders in advance. The latest version is always available on this page.